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Nov 13, 2008
My Exact Description
I´m a SWM / BHM (Big Handsome Man) / 5´9" / I was extruded on 09/24/1972 in Brooklyn, NY at 10:10 AM on Sunday morn'n / I weigh in at 260 LB / Short blk. hr. - Army Ranger-styled crew cut / Shaved head / Salt & pepper hr. / Big brn. eyes / Usually clean-shaven, but sometimes I maintain a little stubble / I wear size 12 boots, & size 13 shoes / I dress casually; usually in greys, with blue suspenders / Have lightly tanned skin / Wear glasses, w/black frames / No kids, but want someday / Never married / No tatts / No body piercings / No pets / I live alone / I rent an apt. in the 'burbs' / Very easy to talk to / Emotionally-stable / Non-smk. / Non-drnk. / Affect. / Polite / Kind / Caring / Considerate / Courteous / Humorous / Honest / Merciful / Extrovert / Nicknames I go by: DELTA_flt1189, NATIONALflt0477, Continental_flt.265, tr-3flyingtriangleufo, & ANDYTRAK / Messianic Jew (Believer in Jesus Christ). - Don´t run like some cowardly chicken! - Read on, OK?
*S.O.S: - Looking for Old Friends From Maplebrook School Inc.*
I attended Maplebrook School Inc. in Amenia, NY, from: 02/1989 - 06/1991
What type of guy was I? I was the guy who liked to make others laugh, & I used to keep my black hair short, in sort of a semi-bowl-cut. I wore glasses with thin, black frames, & long pants all the time, except during athletics sometimes. I tended to wear dress shirts alot of times, mostly with different colored stripes, & here´s what you will remember about me ... I loved to draw airplanes all the time, & have always been showing my drawings around to different people around the campus. -- I was a major airplane freak!! Lol -- I used to travel on DELTA Airlines to & from my home in Ft. Myers, FL, & then back to school again. This happened during hollidays, with the rest of you. Remember? We used to get on the van in front of the boy´s dorm at like ... 5:00 AM, all of us like half asleep, the van loaded to the gills with us kids & our luggage in the chilly early hours of the morning? We were to board our separate flights at Hartford Bradley Int´l, to our final destinations around the country. Lol I remember those fun days! I still love flying. Lol (Although, I haven´t been flying quite as much as when I was a teenager, when you knew me, back then.)
Where I was from at that time: I used to live in Ft. Myers, FL with my parents, but now I live in Lancaster, PA, USA, 17602, since 10/2004.
My old Maplebrook School friends were: Brian Threadgill, (best friend above the rest) Rice Henry, Scott Tocqueshell, Brendon Meyers, Mike Harralson, Vinay Ghandi, Tim Sutter, Louis Rothwax, Robert Charrick, Katrina Brown, Lauren Guangcar, Tiffany Johnston, Carol Hebebrand, Anne Patterson, John Sauer, Robert Carney, Brian Lumley, Kip Lyons, Neil Goldenstein, Larry Sommers, Brian Hollenback, Jennifer Lipsky, Jessica Costa, Heather Franchetti, Sheryl Goyings, Molly Macyntyre, Bill Braslin, (boy´s dorm house parent) Donald Capalbo, (Voc. dorm manager) Roger Fazzone, (Headmaster) Betty Belleveau, (boy´s dorm house parent) Lisa (staff member I had in 1990, in the boy´s dorm) Connie Comerford (Staff member in the girl´s dorm, in 1989-1990) Emma Posa, (Staff member in the girl´s dorm, throughout my stay, there) Carol, (The laundry lady in the girl´s dorm) Mr. Walsh, (Principal) Mr. & Mrs. DeMint, Ms. Gallows, Mr. Hertzfeld, (Art teacher) Nurse Brewer, Gail Ongley, (Owner of the School-owned "May´s Pizzeria," in Ame´s Plaza) Dick Schob, (Voc. dorm house parent) Gene Meanagh, (Voc. dorm house parent) Mrs. Hale, (Administrator) Martha Cox, Michelle Horowitz, Kathy Shevack, Paul Shinbaum, Ashley Tillet, Fillipe Liva, Elizabeth Blankenship, Tracy Wilkes, Bonnie.
BY FAR, the single BEST girlfriend I have EVER had was: ... Ms. Jennifer Straw. Jennifer, I love you honey, I always have, & I miss you, very very much!! Please forgive me for hurting yer feelings at times, & I also forgive you too, for the same, OK? - I love all of you as well, & I miss you, VERY much. - Please take the time to read my whole ad, & I greatly appreciate your time. Thank you, my old friends! I Love you, all.
If any one of you remembers me: (Andrew Friedman) from Maplebrook School Inc. during the years I was there as listed above, PLEASE contact me any time day or night, so that I may resume a dialogue with you. Thank you, so much!!
My Cooking Skills
I am not that bad of a cook. I really enjoy it, but I don´t like cook´n alone, all by my lonesome. Y? Cuz it blows. It sux, & it´s no fun. I would pamper you, though, if I were to cook for you. I´d make you feel like you were in a restaraunt, fa´show, babs.
I love a woman who knows how to cook, & cook GOOD. Ya don´t need to make anything extravagant for me, hon. Just keep it simple, & at least know whut the heck yer doi´n. Lol I´m not that hard to please, although some women may beg to differ with me on that. Lol
I am very good at taking something basic like a PB & J sandwich, & turn it into a gourmet feast. I´m VERY good at that. I love to make homemade chicken soup once in a while, although I do not do it often, as cooking alone can really suck. I am very good at making chicken soup as I have practiced for a long time before I managed to get it right. I only use fresh ingredients, & I make it authentic, in the classic eastern european style.
You wanna talk about some chicken salad? -- Lemme tell you something, babs ... I make slam´n chicken salad. I make it FRESH, with FRESH ingredients, not out of a can. I´m good. I don´t use cheap bread, either. I use good quality bread. I make chicken taste so good, that you´d think that you were eating prime rib, done up perfectly, young lady. -- I´m good. The only thing that is a bit too much of a ballbuster for me to make is fried chicken, as I do not have a deep fryer. Otherwise, I guarranty you that I could make it (assuming I have the right ingredients, & the proper equipment.)
I also like to do some italian dishes as well. I can basically make just about anything, but I normally don´t, for the reason that I don´t have anyone to really do it for (yet), but also on top of that, alot of the ingredients can be a little bit on the expensive side, so that´s a bit of a hinderance. I usually just coo for whenever I have company over.
I generally hate the tinny, fishy taste of canned fish, but sometimes I am able to cook it in a skillet & then it doesn´t taste as bad, but I do prefer fresh fish quite a bit more.
One of the things that I am very good at making also, are FRESH juices. I love to make fresh cranberry juice, & lemonade, as well. It´s very simple for me to do.
My favorite foods are a wide variety of stuff, but only if it´s made correctly. I hate it whenever I go out to some restaraunt & a waiter/waitress brings me some poorly made slop, that´s supposed to be a well-made dish, but due to the fact that the restaraunt owner has no balls, he/she lets his/her head chef make garbage & serves the pig slop to someone like me who can tell that it´s pig slop.
My Personality Type: Type 2
"The caring, interpersonal type. Two´s are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted.. They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing, but can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing.
They are well-meaning and driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order to be needed. At their Best: unselfish and altruistic, they have unconditional love for others."
Hey, I mean ... IF they say so, right? Lol -- I´m NOT possessive, but the other stuff is accurate.
"DELTA_flt.1189´s Core Color = Blue
Nurturing Seek Quality
What to expect:
They both share concern for quality and detail
They are both extremely committed to the relationship
They are very dependable in completing projects or tasks
They can get caught up in the details at the sacrifice of essential productivity
They are very perfectionistic and therefore hard on themselves and each other
They can be too serious and feed each other´s depression
You only have one Core Motive or "Color Code"
Your personality type is driven by only ONE of four Core Motives, represented by the colors:
RED (Core Motive = Power, or the ability to move from "a" to "b" as efficiently as possible)
BLUE (Core Motive = Intimacy, this doesn´t mean ***, but the need to connect, share feelings, and build relationships with others) -- (But umm... *** would be a nice thing for me, as an added extra. Lol)
WHITE (Core Motive = Peace, or calm even in the midst of conflict; clarity in the midst of confusion)
YELLOW (Core Motive = Fun, or always enjoying the moment)
These are the four basic personality types that I will teach you about. However, very few people have ever scored 100% in one single color while taking the profile; therefore, you will find that your Core Color is often influenced by traces of the other colors.. That is why no two WHITES, although driven by the same Core Motive of Peace, will ever be exactly alike.
Your Color was present at birth and you cannot change it
You were born with your core personality color intact (ask any woman who has given birth to more than one child and she´ll tell you that her children had different personalities before they had drawn their first breath), and while parts of your personality do change over time (for example, you may have not been born a good listener, but you have learned to become one), you cannot and should not try to discard your Core Color in an attempt to trade it for another. If you were born a YELLOW, you will die a YELLOW, but you can add to yourself any strength or any limitation of any color to your core self.
All Colors are of equal importance
No personality type is better than another. Each brings equally valuable, albeit, different gifts to the world.
All Colors are neither good nor bad
No personality type is innately good or bad. Many people who do not know The Color Code may assume that all BLUES must be good and all REDS must be bad, for example. This couldn´t be more false. The colors are neutral and individuals are free to choose how they will use their strengths and limitations to leave either a positive or a negative legacy in life.
Why You´re Hot
You Put Your Partner/Relationship First
People like to feel important, especially to their significant other, and you have the natural ability to make that happen. As a BLUE, you tend to be very selfless, and your first thought is always "how will this affect my partner?" You would be willing to sacrifice going out with friends or engaging in an activity that you enjoy on your own to do something less exciting with your significant other - not that they would necessarily ask you to - but just knowing you would is a great feeling.
You Make Events Magical
When planning something such as an anniversary dinner or a birthday party, you don´t like to go through the same old routine that everyone else does. You have a flair for the creative and you seem to have a sense of how to create an ambiance by adding special touches that you know will be perfect for the occasion. For example, you might have personalized gifts or you might recreate something meaningful that happened previously in your relationship. You make ordinary things extra special, which is very endearing.
*You Are Unbelievably Thoughtful.
*You Emanate Quality And Purpose In All That You Do.
*You Give Your Heart Wholly And Willingly.
*You Are A Rock - Stable And Dependable.
*Your Capacity For Emotional Depth Is Remarkable.
*You Are A Class Act.
Why You´re Not
You Tend To Blame Others For Your Unhappiness (I disagree with that, but that´s their analysis, not mine.)
As a BLUE, you hold high standards for yourself and tend to have unrealistic expectations of yourself, your partner, and how things "should be," so when things go wrong, you turn to others, such as your partner, as the source for your unhappiness. You might say to her, "if only you were more attentive / caring / interested / loving (you name it), this wouldn´t have happened." This is obviously not a great way to maintain somebody´s affection. (I´m actually not like that in a relationship, but like I said ... that´s their analysis, not mine.)
It´s Hard For You To Relax (You Require A Purpose To Play)
BLUES tend to be overly guilt-prone, and so if you are doing things that are not purposeful by your standards, you probably feel guilty about it. Ergo, you tend to require a justifiable reason to just play and enjoy life - which usually defeats the purpose and makes it feel unnatural or forced to others in your life. Your tendency to be high-strung in this way can be alarming to a potential mate who is stuck wondering if you´ll ever be able to calm down enough to enjoy a life together."
What is your personality type?
Based on your answers, you are a Director/Negotiator
What is your personality type?
Based on your answers, you are a Director/Negotiator
The following analysis is based on your responses to our questionnaire. Your results identify your major and minor personality types, as well as the types with whom you´re likely to be compatible.
Your Major and Minor Personality Types
Characteristics of all four personality types can be found within each of us, but there is almost always one personality type that is dominant. We call this the major personality type.
The Chemistry Profile also identifies your minor or secondary personality type. You exhibit some aspects of this personality type, though not to the same degree as with your major type.
Your major personality type = Director
Your minor personality type = Negotiator
You are a DIRECTOR/negotiator
You are an innovator. You are an inventive, thorough, independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. You quickly grasp patterns and relationships. And when you focus on a particular work-related or social puzzle, you often come up with novel theories and ideas about it.
You have a strong need to achieve. You want to make an impact on the world. And with your aptitude for theoretical thinking, your investigative rigor, your logic and your determination, you are likely to win the honors your hard work deserves.
You are a complex person, outwardly assertive, logical and intellectual, yet likely to see the many sides of an issue, feel deep sympathy for others and enjoy the spiritual as well as the concrete.
You can be friendly, insightful and eager to please. These attributes, combined with your love of challenges and knowledge, make you an exciting, and at times, very sensitive companion.
-Explorer - 20% N
-Negotiator - 26%
-Builder - 25% D
-Director - 27%
How your personality breaks out You Matched
Explorer - 20% of your personality Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion.
Builder - 25% of your personality Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective.
Negotiator - 26% of your personality Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing.
Director - 27% of your personality Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.
Dating Tips for Directors
Not everyone is as direct, focused and “to the point” as you are. So make sure you give potential partners the time they need to express themselves. You will probably be surprised at their logic and intellect.
Your competitive spirit is useful in the office but it doesn´t work in dating--unless you find someone who likes to challenge and debate. When that happens, go for it. Otherwise, try to listen actively.
Aim at investigating some of the “grey areas” during an invigorating conversation. Much of the world does not see in black and white.
Separate work from play. Try to get your assignments out of your mind while on a date—so you can truly enjoy your “down time” with a partner.
Make sure to schedule enough time to get to know someone.
Try looking directly into the eyes of your partner during a conversation; many people find this “anchoring gaze” a powerful form of intimacy.
Testosterone builds the length of the fourth (right) digit in the womb. The longer your ring finger (in relation to your pointing finger) the more you are likely to have mathematical, mechanical and/or musical skills. The first two smiles are genuine, because they are accompanied by crow´s-feet wrinkles around the eyes and a slight dip in the eyebrows. The ability to "read" faces is associated with the hormone estrogen in both women and men and is often linked with empathy.
Adventurous, risk taking men and women are generally uncomfortable with public displays of affection or the open expression of feelings by others. Risk taking is associated with the brain chemical, dopamine. Curiosity is associated with the activity of dopamine (a natural stimulant) in the brain. It is often linked with spontaneity and creativity.
My Personal Transportation
I normally get around with a silver "Mongoose-Blackcombe" silver, dual suspension mountain bike & bike trailer in tow, to pull my groceries, or bike tools. I perform most of the repairs on the thing, myself, in an emergency, if I get stuck somewhere.
I´m well known around my town, by the name that´s affixed to my bike trailer: ´ANDYTRAK.´ Lol. That´s my transportation.
I love doggies! -- I used to have a huge cuddly basset houndypooie named ´Huckleberry.´ I love him so. He was the saddest thing in the whole wide world, & someday I´ll surely get another one. I like animals as a whole, but ... I LOVE bassets & bloodhoundies above the rest. (o) - bow-wow - Arrrroooooooooooooooo!! LOL
I have specific ´likes´. -- Ask me, if yer curious. You may like them, as well(!)
*Miracles That Actually Happened To Me, In 11/2006! The Following is a TRUE Story. Dare To Believe.*
In 11/2006, I came home one night, feeling broken, & beat down by the world. I was just about broke, I had no relationship with my family in the previous 5 years, & it was very poor anyway with them, so ... I also felt like ending my life right then & there, due to continuous thoughts of hopelessness, as well as other tormenting thoughts... social ´fears,´ as well as this unfounded fear that people were tryn´a kill me, in the middle of the night.
It was the wierdest thing; I felt ´compelled´ to just start praying. I said:
"OK, Jesus. Help me. You win. I can´t do this anymore.. IF you´re real, You show me! Here I am ... I´m sorry I cursed out my parents & for rejecting you. Here, look ... I´ll call my father to appologise to him ... (So, I called my dad to appologise to him, & typically he was never willing to return my phone calls prior to that time, in the previous 5 years due to the bad language on my part, & hard feelings on both sides, as well; alot of emotional ´baiting´ by him, at times. I´ve forgiven him, though.) After I called him up to leave him a messege, I cried out: Look. You see? I told you! Where are you, Jesus? Help me, please. I can´t do this on my own anymore ... Please forgive me. Help me! I´m sorry I rejected you ..."
So I´m standing there with tears running down my face staring up at the ceiling as if I was ´expecting´ to hear from Him, or feel something, & I did! All of the sudden, I felt this overwhelming peace come over my entire body. -- The tormenting thoughts of hopelessness, & ending my life, INSTANTLY left my head, & was replaced by the soothing, comforting, & emotionally-stabilizing Holy Spirit. He´s healed my right ankle, as well as my bottom left rear moler.
This´s where my ankel story: -- My right ankle was diseased; it used to lock up on me, an average of twice per month, & was stiff practcally every day in that 5 year period. I had a medical condition called "Effusion" in the joint... -- It instantly healed up, & when no other Dr. helped me because I had no insurance to cover an operation. I was snubbed & rejected in emergency rooms by several different "Dr.´s." - both in NJ, & here in PA. Not surprising, the selfish individuals that they are, in this cold-blooded medical system! -- JC healed my ankle, when the world litterally coldly turned it´s back on me. I was miraculously healed, in an instant! -- No psychiatrist, D.D.R (Dentist) or Dr. was ever able to make this happen for me, in my entire life. How interesting!! -- I mean, just when I came to the Lord to ask Him for forgiveness, & to accept Him, my torments fears & pains at that moment, completely vanished on the spot. ... I mean whut can I say? I am so impressed by the works that He has done in my life, that I must tell you about this, so that you too, can experience this, if you so desire.
Some Of My Old Habbits, Prior To 11/2006
I used to draw airplanes all the time, since I was a little kid. I over-focussed on them as I love aviation, & as an adult, I drew planes nonstop 12 hours a day stuck in my strong-hold, not going anywhere in my pseudo-misery (so to speak), & after that moment in 11/2006, I just stopped drawing. It just ceased, all at once. No meds ... No counselling ..... No "help" from the world. Amazing. Absollutely amazing. I would have never believed that such a thing was at all possible, if it didn´t happen to me, personally. As I am a firm witness to those physical & psychic miracles before God & before His Holy angels, performed by Him, I attest to it being the 100% truth.
I can forgive people now, I´m not suicidal ... I´m not some writhing hate-monger ... I´m not severely obsessed with my former passion of drawing airplanes day in & day out like I´ve been doing for my entire adult life prior to 11/2006, & I´ve gotten the relationship back with my parents which means a whole hell of alot to me. For a while after these troubles became chronic between my parents & I, they were not helping me.. But, after I was led to give my heart to the Lord, He has also signalled their hearts to give me a hand with some matters, which is really neat. They have not just decided to do so on their own, but by the gentle touch, from His hand, & by His mercies.
I was in counselling for my severe hateful feelings I had towards everyone that wronged me, & other bad thoughts, & at the moment I was healed. It was the wierdest thing. I just knew that I was made right, by my faith in Him(!) I automatically went over to the phone, & cancelled all of my future Dr.´s appointments. There simply was no more need to go to further sessions as I was not suicidal any longer ... I was not ... hateful of people any longer, & I was not afraid of some yutz tryn´a kill me any longer! It was all over.. At that point, I absollutely knew with 100% certainty that all those years of growing up Jewish, & not having Jesus Christ in my life was a stark contrast to the life I had since I´ve been saved, under the Holy Spirit of God, through Jesus Christ. -- That´s when I suddenly put ´2 & 2 together´ as they say, & believed evrything that was written in whut I now know to be the soveriegn Word of the Only living God, & His Son, the High Priest, & Lord of the sabbath. Alleluia! & "The demons tremble at His name." Amen.
He let God´s Holy Spirit over-take me, & I went from being a selfish, vengeful, unforgiving individual, to a sudden hunger for knowing more about this amazing deity that from what I´ve read, healed the blind, the lame, & the sick, 2000+ years ago. Much to my shock & amazement, He was actually REAL! - I was raised Jewish, & you can imagine that in my whole life up to that point, the only time He was ever mentioned in our house, was in a blasphemous way, like what the rest of the blasphemous, spiritually-rotten world likes to say: "J**** C*****!"
In closing, let me say, that ANYONE & I mean ANYONE, who tells you that the Holy Spirit of God, or His Son Jesus Christ does not exist or that He does not heal, or that the Holy Spirit is not real is nothing more than a liar, a misleading snake, & a false-prophet, & they are indeed, an anti-Christ, as warned of, in II PETER 2. I reccommend the NKJV, as myself, & my other evangelical brothers & sisters agree on this variant. Check it out, sometime, OK? Give Jesus Christ a chance, as you can´t condemn whut yer never willing to try, or to criticize & judge the Holy Judge especially, if you are never willing to open up your heart to Him, on a personal level, in your room or when you´re alone. It´s completely unfair to Him, & well, let us not fein ignorance ... Would you like someone treating you like that? Automatically judging you -- or yer kid; yer son or yer daughter perhaps, as a "fairytale," or "not real," or assuming that yer a ´liar?´ How do they know about you, or yer kid, my friend? They have never gotten to talk to you, or gotten to know you at all, right? Do you see my point? Can you imagine for just a moment if the role was turned around back upon you, or yer kid?
Who cares whut yer "friends" think about it. I ´ve got another astonishing revelation for ya ... They´re not your judge, so you at least be smart enough, to remember that. You have wisdom? Use it.. Apply it.
At this point, I´m a prayer warrior, in the Christian faith. Because of the modification He made to my soul, He has shown me that He loves me for who I am, & most importantly, that He has forgiven me for my blasphemies, for the murders, self-exhaltations & pride in my heart. -- All of that, on top of the fantastic mass healings that He has performed in me.
He has shown me that now I´m a partaker in His inheritance, & promised rest. He has given me the right to enter heaven not by my own might, but by the grace & mercies of God.
JOHN 6 : 47 - 51
47 "Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes
in Me has everlasting life.
48 "I am the bread of life.
49 "Your fathers ate the manna in the wilderness,
and are dead.
50 "This is the bread which comes down from
heaven, that one may eat of it, and not die.
51 "I am the living bread which came down from
heaven. If anyone eats of this bread, he will live
forever; and the bread that I shall give is My flesh,
which I shall give for the life of the world."
My Way Of Life
The life I lead goes like this: I witness to people around my town & tell others of the miracles that Jesus did for me. No, I´m not a pastor, but I do minister to people around the town from time to time of Jesus & who He is, & of the miracles that He performed in my life in 11/2006. In return, the Lord sends people my way to help me out with a variety of things, from time to time. (Food, little things like that ... etc.) That´s what´s called living BY FAITH. Through Faith in Jesus Christ are we healed, as what is spoken of, in the New Testament.
I´m no yuppie, & I´m not fancy. I´m stuck in a very low income bracket, so ... don´t be beg´n me for money, or ... expecting me to fly you anywhere, b´cuz I can´t, I´m sorry. There´s an old worldly saying, which´s actually true. - It goes: "Ya´ can´t squeez blood from a stone." Well, hats off to whomever wrote that, cuz they hit the nail right on the head! - Now listen up ... I don´t want ya´ money. KEEP IT. Nor do I need anyone who plays a judge of me. Period. IF YOU are like THAT, then take yer phony shtick somewhere else.
The Lord is taking very good care of me, & He sends people my way to help me, so if He works that way through you, great! God bless you for it. but if not, that´s fine too. Do the best that you can on yer path. I´m fine, babs.