Always a challenge, when you get together with someone you really like just before a major event. Particularly Valentine's Day. My recommendation is stay well away from the roses, and try something unique, different, interesting. I love the idea of the two of you learning to fly the trapeze, or twirling a lasoo. Red Letter Days have some great options, and think its great if you go for something you can do together. It'll certainly be a talking point and a great memory you've built together. Plus, you can rub the Deep Heat into her aching limbs at the end of the day!